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That everything you tell the person you love is actually and specifically true.

Because there is nothing in the world like knowing that you can absolutely 100% rely on every word that you hear from the person you love is just as exactly true.

So, if you are not willing to speak the truth in a manner that is comprehensible to the person you love – why do you think you love them at all?

And really, if you can’t communicate with your partner in a comprehensible way, how can you really know if they love you?

so, it’s no wonder to me that in most couples, one or both people are always one foot out the door and scanning the horizon for new and better prospects.

agoraphobic philosopher ponders:

if you live with the idea of forgiveness,
if you live with the idea of kindness,
if you live with the idea of curiosity,

then you shouldn’t hold anger or hate or mistrust in your heart

because if you live with the idea that everyone can be redeemed and forgiven – then carrying a grudge, judging people, and punishing them – should be unthinkable

none of which means you shouldn’t think critically and not forget – after all, anyone who continues the objectionable behaviours is not trying to redeem themselves, they are just trying to pull the same crap over again.

but the point is, if you know you will forgive, then let go of the anger and hurt – get toxic people out of your life or minimized as best as you can

then get on with your own life, which, when based in positive emotions and thoughtfulness – self management and mindfulness,

no matter what happens in and around your life, you will be able to find and see more joy and happiness than looking at the world from a negative emotional place that skews your perspective about the world and your place in it.


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