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Men Don’t Have to Take it Either…

Posted on: November 9, 2012


Many years ago, I wrote an article about battering in lesbian relationships.

I interviewed a woman who admitted hitting her partner.


another interview that I did for the article was with the then office co-ordinator of the Vancouver Lesbian Centre in vancouver , british columbia.


I asked her “Where do men belong in the women’s movement?”


she answered: “on the sidelines working with other men.”


I said: “Shouldn’t women in battered women’s shelters see that there are good and caring men?”


She said “No, that would be too traumatizing.”


“SO,” I said, “What you are telling me is that men should be operating the shelters that lesbians go to?”


there was a long moment of silence.


She said “I never saw you lead me down that garden path. You really want to be black balled in the feminist community, don’t you?”


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